Living your dreams
Scott is stage 4 prostate cancer. When the cancer metastasized to his bones (and multiple lymph nodes), a cure was no longer possible. (Scott’s reminder: early detection saves lives! Get your PSA checked men- Scott will be getting his next tests and treatments at Mayo in a week). Having the cancer, and stage 4 diagnosis gave Scott the opportunity to strategically consider what his dreams were and how he wanted to live the rest of his life. It's a lesson for us all!
How many people live their dreams? How many people overcome fear and obstacles to do something simply incredible, beyond comprehension? And how many people do that with a stage 4 terminal diagnosis?
Perhaps it is the diagnosis that actually helps Scott “live like you are dying”, the Tim McGraw song he likes to quote. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_9TShlMkQnc Scott’s message throughout this ride to all his family, friends, and colleagues is to do just that! Follow your dreams, live like you are dying, and do not let fear or obstacles dictate your choices or cancel your dreams.
Being brave and courageous does not mean that Scott is not
afraid. Of course, he has the same fears as everyone. Ie can he do this, what will happen to the cancer, how will he do this, what will happen doing it day after day, will he be safe, will Katy be safe, what will happen with his family... on and on...Being brave and
courageous means living fully even when you are afraid. Making dreams come true also
means making sacrifices. For us, it is missing family time, and substantial financial
compromises to make this work. It means a whole lot of exhaustive work and
planning. It means overcoming obstacles. But oh the joy to make your dream come true- it really is a gift to live your dreams and Scott and I know it. Go for your dreams! Reach for the moon!
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